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inparticular.ai
Overgrooming with bald patches is a tricky situation — you want to keep up a grooming routine because it helps with bonding and coat health, but you also can't risk irritating skin that's already stressed and possibly sore. Before I suggest anything, has your vet confirmed this is stress-related overgrooming rather than a skin condition like ringworm or allergies? That matters quite a bit for what's safe to use.
Yes, the vet has seen her and confirmed it's behavioural — stress from a house move. The patches are on her belly and inner legs. She's not in pain but the skin does look a bit pink there.
inparticular.ai
Good that you've got that confirmed — it changes things a lot. So with pink, sensitive skin on the belly and inner legs, you want to avoid anything with firm pins or rubber nubs that could drag across those areas. Abyssinians have a short, tight coat anyway, so they don't need aggressive tools. What does her temperament tend to be like with grooming when she's not stressed — does she generally tolerate a brush, or is she the type to wriggle away after thirty seconds?
She's usually pretty good actually. She'll sit still for a few minutes if I'm gentle. She does flinch if I go near the belly though, understandably.
inparticular.ai
That's helpful — a cat who cooperates but has a clear no-go zone is very workable. And honestly for an Abyssinian you don't need much anyway; that coat is low-maintenance by nature. The main thing you're after is something that feels pleasant rather than stimulating, so she associates grooming with calm rather than something to brace against. Are you mainly grooming for bonding and coat shine, or is shedding on your furniture a frustration too?
Mostly bonding, I think. She seems unsettled lately and I want grooming to be something calming for her. Some loose hair around the house but it's not a crisis.
inparticular.ai
In that case, I'd go with the Safari Soft Slicker Brush for Cats. It has very fine, soft-tipped wire pins set in a flexible cushioned base — gentle enough that it doesn't scratch or drag on sensitive skin, but still picks up loose hair and gives a nice coat finish. The light pressure and smooth motion are much closer to being stroked than being groomed, which is exactly what you want for a stressed cat. Critically, you can use it on her back, sides, and neck while completely avoiding the belly — short sessions, always stopping before she disengages. Don't try to brush the affected patches at all for now; those areas just need to be left alone while she settles.
That sounds perfect. Is there anything else I should keep in mind while she's going through this patch?
inparticular.ai
Keep sessions very short — two or three minutes maximum — and always let her end it if she wants to. Predictability helps anxious cats, so grooming at the same time each day in a quiet spot can itself become part of what settles her. If the bald patches spread or the skin becomes broken or crusty, go back to your vet; sometimes stress overgrooming needs support beyond just environmental management. But for the grooming itself, the Safari brush used gently on the areas she's comfortable with is the right call.
