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inparticular.ai
Your breeder gave you really good advice — starting pheromone support at adoption is exactly the right move for a young kitten. Cat anxiety is easy to miss because cats hide stress well, and by 8 weeks a kitten is already processing a huge amount: leaving littermates, a new home, new smells, new people. Getting ahead of that stress rather than waiting for signs to appear makes a real difference. To point you to the right product, just a couple of quick questions: will the kitten be spending most of its time in one room initially, or will it have the run of the house from day one? And is there anything else in the environment — other pets, young children, a particularly busy household?
She'll be in one room to start — my bedroom — then gradually introduced to the rest of the flat. It's just me, no other pets. Pretty calm and quiet most of the time.
inparticular.ai
Perfect setup, honestly. One quiet room to start is exactly how you want to do it. Because she'll be in a defined space initially and then expanding gradually, a plug-in diffuser is the right format here — it runs continuously, covers a room well, and you don't have to remember to do anything once it's in. Sprays are useful for targeted moments like carrier travel, but for baseline daily support in her settling-in space, a diffuser does the job much more consistently.
That makes sense. Which one would you recommend?
inparticular.ai
Go with the Feliway Classic Starter Kit — it's the plug-in diffuser with a 48ml refill included, which gives you about 30 days of coverage. Feliway Classic uses a synthetic version of the facial pheromone cats deposit when they rub their face on things — it's a comfort signal, and it's the most researched feline pheromone product out there. For a kitten arriving in a new home, this is specifically what you want. Plug it in at kitten height in your bedroom a couple of hours before she arrives if you can, so the room already has that background signal when she walks in. When you move her into the rest of the flat, you can either move the diffuser with her into the next space she's getting used to, or pick up a second one.
Should I keep it running indefinitely or is there a point where I can stop?
inparticular.ai
Most people run it for the first three months — that covers the full settling-in window, which for kittens is roughly the first 12 weeks in a new home. After that, if she's confident, relaxed, sleeping well, and not showing any hiding or stress behaviours, you can let a refill run out and see how she does without it. Some cats don't need it long-term at all. Others benefit from it during specific triggers later — like if you redecorate, have guests, or change her routine. The good news is the refills are reasonably priced, so continuing isn't a hardship if she seems calmer with it running.
Great, that's really helpful. One more thing — is there anything else I should have ready for when she arrives?
inparticular.ai
The diffuser is your main tool for the background environment. Beyond that, the practical things that make the biggest difference are: a covered litter tray so she has a private safe spot, a hiding place she can access easily (a cardboard box on its side with a blanket works fine), and keeping the first few days low-key — resist the urge to introduce her to everyone you know immediately. American Curls are sociable but they're still 8-week-old kittens, so let her come to you rather than the other way around. You've clearly thought this through — she's going to a good home.