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    Vizsla Separation Anxiety & WFH Disruption

    This is a specific conversation about Anxious Dog — ask about yours and get one honest answer for your exact situation.

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    A Vizsla who can't let you out of sight — that's classic for the breed, but it doesn't make it any less exhausting when you're trying to get through a work call. Is he whining, pawing at you, barking, or all of the above when you're occupied?
    All of the above honestly. He whines, then escalates to barking, then tries to climb onto my lap. The second I close my office door he loses it completely.
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    Right, so he hasn't learned that door closing isn't permanent — it's a trigger in itself. Before I suggest anything, has he ever had any training around settling on a mat or in a bed on cue, or is he pretty much untrained for independent calm?
    He knows basic commands but nothing like that. He's never really had to be independent — I used to work in an office but went remote two years ago and it's gradually got worse.
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    That tracks. Two years of you being constantly available has basically convinced him that your full attention is the baseline. What you need is something that gives him a genuinely compelling reason to settle in one spot — not just a distraction that lasts three minutes. For Vizslas specifically, I'd go with the KONG Extreme stuffed and frozen. It's not glamorous, but it's the most reliable sustained occupation I know of for a dog this food-motivated and this mentally active. Frozen KONG means it takes 20–30 minutes to work through, which is long enough to get you through most calls. The Extreme version is the black one — it's tougher than the classic red and handles a proper-sized dog well. You pair it strictly with the times you need focus, so it starts to predict 'owner is busy but this is fine' rather than 'owner is inaccessible and the world is ending.'
    View Kong Classic (Red) on AmazonView Kong Extreme (Black) on Amazon
    I've tried Kongs before and he lost interest after a few minutes. Won't he just do the same?
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    Almost certainly, if it's not frozen. An unfrozen KONG he can empty in under two minutes — frozen is the whole point. Pack it with something high-value: a layer of peanut butter, wet food, a bit of chicken, seal the end, freeze overnight. It becomes genuinely hard work. Also, don't give it to him when he's already escalated and barking — give it before your call starts, when he's still calm. You're rewarding the calm state, not the noise. If you do that consistently for two weeks, the frozen KONG appearing becomes its own cue to settle.
    That actually makes sense. Which one specifically should I get?
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    Get the KONG Extreme in Large — that's the black one, product code KE2. It's widely available on Amazon UK, usually a few pounds, and it'll last years with a Vizsla. Buy two so one's always in the freezer ready to go. That's genuinely all you need to start — get the routine solid before adding anything else.

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