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inparticular.ai
A Dalmatian fixating on rabbits is a tricky one — that stalking behaviour is deeply instinctive, but the anxiety and tension it creates for everyone in the house, including your dog, is very real. How long have the rabbits been home, and does your Dalmatian ever settle around them, or is it constant the moment they're in the same space?
The rabbits have been here about two months. He never really settles — the moment he knows they're nearby he goes into this low creeping mode, totally fixated. He's not aggressive but he won't relax. I keep them separated but even through the door he paces.
inparticular.ai
That pacing through the door tells me this isn't just excitement — he's in a state of chronic low-level arousal that he can't come down from. Dalmatians have a strong prey drive and a lot of nervous energy even at the best of times. What's he like the rest of the day when the rabbits are out of his mind entirely — is he generally settled, or wound up in other ways too?
He's usually a pretty calm dog otherwise, to be honest. Good on walks, sleeps well. It's specifically since the rabbits arrived. He's just obsessed and I can feel the tension in the whole house now.
inparticular.ai
That's actually helpful — it means his baseline is good, so this is a specific trigger rather than general anxiety. The rabbits have essentially rewired his focus and he hasn't found a way to disengage. The stalking and pacing is him rehearsing the same loop over and over, which keeps him in a stressed state even when nothing is happening. For a dog like this, I'd look at calming the background nervous system noise so he's less reactive to the trigger overall, rather than trying to train the prey drive away entirely — that's a long road. My recommendation would be the Adaptil Calm Home Diffuser. It releases a synthetic version of the calming pheromone mother dogs produce, and it works passively throughout the home. It won't sedate him or change his personality — it just turns the dial down on that baseline arousal so the rabbit presence doesn't spike him so hard. Plug it in the room where he spends most of his time. Give it two to three weeks before judging it.
I've heard of Adaptil but wasn't sure if it was just for things like fireworks. Would it actually work for something like this?
inparticular.ai
It's most marketed for fireworks and separation anxiety, but the mechanism is the same — it reduces generalised stress responses. Dogs in multi-pet tension situations respond well to it because the stress is constant and ambient rather than one big event. The diffuser format is ideal here because it's always on, working in the background. It won't solve the management side — you'll still want to keep them separated and work on controlled, calm introductions over time — but it gives you a dog who's easier to redirect and less locked into that stalking loop. That combination of environmental pheromone support plus your management routine is genuinely the most effective starting point.
That makes sense. I'll give it a try. Should I get anything else alongside it or just start with that?
inparticular.ai
Start with just the diffuser. Adding multiple things at once makes it hard to know what's working, and honestly the diffuser alone can make a meaningful difference for a dog whose baseline is otherwise solid. If after a month you're not seeing enough change, then it's worth looking at adding something like a calming supplement — but give the Adaptil a proper run first. One thing, done well.